Is Getting Married Young A Bad Thing?
Remember when you watch the movies that were made over 50 years ago that all woman wanted to do was to get married and make babies? That was their goal in life and they weren’t quite as happy until they had all that. Now think of how things are today and how different the goals of woman have changed.
In this modern time the goal for most woman is to get a great high paying career and if they have time they can get married. By the time they are ready to have kids they are in their 30’s and 40’s. But there are those few woman who don’t have any set goals and let life take them where it leads. Some woman find their true love at a young age and start a family young.
I was one of those who met the love of my life at 19 and proceeded to get married not long after we met. One year later we had ourselves a beautiful baby girl and are planning to have one more in a year. Some people think I’m crazy. They think that we were too young or that I would miss out on life. They wanted us to wait a whole year to get married and we were going to, but we weren’t happy to. That is when we realized that it doesn’t matter what others say only what we wanted…it was our life!
The thing to keep in mind is that not everyone is the same way. Some people love to start a family young if they meet that right person. I didn’t want to wait to get married after I knew that he was the one for me. And when it came to having children both me and my husband love the fact that we’ll still be young when they turn 18.
Others prefer to wait and to experience different people and different things before they settle down. Some prefer to start that career and get completely stable. I do need to remind you though that unless you are rolling in money you aren’t going to be rich enough. But never forget that there are always going to be hard times, but you will always make it. Even if you don’t have that dream job.
So remember that if you really want to get married young and everyone else is telling you how bad of an idea it is, think about what you both want. Don’t let others tell you what you should do. That will only make you unhappy.